Divorce
is one of the most difficult life events a person can face. Divorce is stressful, costly, and
time-consuming. Not only are you dealing
with the personal (often painful) reasons behind the divorce, but you are also
faced with navigating the intricacies of the divorce process. In fact, divorce may be the very first time
you have had to deal with the court system at all.
You may be tempted to handle your divorce on your own, using court documents and self-help resources. While “do it yourself” divorce may be appropriate under certain circumstances, in many situations it is best to let an experienced attorney represent you.
Here are
5 important questions to ask yourself:
(1) How Confident Do You Feel With Divorce
Law?
Navigating a divorce on your own can be overwhelming. While the California courts provide self-help
resources, it can be difficult and confusing to understand and manage the various
paperwork, procedures, terminology, and deadlines. It is possible to make mistakes you could
regret for the rest of your life. An
experienced divorce attorney who is well-versed in the law and procedure can
help you achieve peace of mind, save time and energy, and protect your rights
and future.
(2) Are You Worried About Your Children and
Assets?
If your divorce involves child custody and support, sizable
income, assets, and debts, you should consider hiring an attorney. Your attorney will ascertain what is most
important to you and take steps to protect your interests and help you receive
what you deserve.
(3) Are You Worried About Stressful Confrontation?
If your relationship with your spouse is strained to the point where you
anticipate heated encounters fraught with conflict, an attorney can help reduce
this stress. Your attorney will need
information from you but will take care of almost everything else.
(4) Does Your Spouse Have an Attorney?
If your spouse has an attorney, it would be wise to hire an attorney of your
own. It can be difficult and daunting to
go head to head with an experienced family law practitioner.
(5) Is Abuse an Issue?
If spousal
abuse, child abuse, and/or substance abuse are concerns, an attorney can help
you take appropriate measures to protect yourself and your children. Remember, abuse can be physical, sexual,
emotional, and/or verbal.
Only you
can determine whether hiring a divorce attorney is right for you. If you are facing divorce and wish to explore
the possibility of legal assistance, please contact the Tran Law Firm at (925)
357-0431 for a consultation free of charge.