These ten tips if taken to heart and appropriately applied, can only help you achieve best possible results in your divorce proceeding.

  1.  Be reasonable
  2.  Be reasonable
  3.  Be reasonable
  4.  Treat the division of assets as an emotionless business transaction
  5.  Be thorough and well organized in your evidence gathering
  6.  Keep a comprehensive, meaningful record of possible events of interest
  7.  Keep a comprehensive and thorough record of all marital assets of interest
  8.  Divorce w/ children: PUT THE BEST INTERESTS OF THE CHILDREN –  FIRST!
  9.  Be clear and mindful of your communications (Facebook, text messages, emails,  digital photos, voice messages), they will more than likely somehow be used  against you. Before sending that nasty email or text message or posting that  photo of you smoking pot on Facebook, ask yourself, “How will this sound, look  and appear in the courtroom?”
  10.  Be reasonable