Tips to Make the Divorce Process Easier

by Ikemesit "Kem" A Eyo on Aug. 10, 2018

Divorce & Family Law 

Summary: Divorce is a rough process, there’s no doubt about it. It turns lives upside down and by its very definition pulls families apart.

Divorce is a rough process, there’s no doubt about it. It turns lives upside down and by its very definition pulls families apart. No couple enters marriage with the intent of it ending, and when a marriage does fall apart, it’s a painful time to say the least. Divorce can not only be painful, it can be an additional source of bitterness and resentment which can ruin a once fruitful partnership.

It doesn’t have to be that way, however. If you act in the right ways at the right time, your divorce can go much more smoothly, and it doesn’t have to necessarily ruin the friendship upon which your marriage was formed. Here are some top tips to make divorce easier, and what you have to do in order to make sure that your separation goes as smoothly as possible for you and your spouse.

How Can You Make Your Divorce Easier?

The biggest key to making your divorce easier is to stay calm, put the bitterness aside, and remember that the two of you, once upon a time, were partners. Plan in advance, do your homework, and protect what’s yours, but understand that compromises still need to be made. Let’s look at some specific steps to take.

Act When Positive

As soon as both spouses are in a positive mindset, which usually comes shortly after the decision to divorce, you should immediately get together and act. There’s almost always a point where both spouses want this to go fast and amicable, and that’s the time to make it happen.

Make a Plan

Make a plan of action. Organize all the information you have about your assets and property, your retirement accounts, investments and every other asset you have, and quickly decide who gets what. Agree on custody plans right away, and determine who gets primary custody and how child support will work. Be as complete and organized as possible. If you hit a stumbling block, move on and come back to it.

Keep Family and Friends out of It

Everyone will want to offer their support. Right now, that just means they’ll be in the middle of something that’s painful and ugly by its very nature. Keep them out of it. It’s much better to preserve friendships all around by not letting them get involved.

Focus on the Future

Divorce is an ending, but also a beginning. While you’re working on closing this chapter of the book, make plans for your future. Let your ex go, and focus on finding yourself again, and taking control of your life back.

Choose the Right Attorney

Not every divorce has to be a fight to the death. The right divorce attorney has a vested interest in keeping things smooth and fast. They might even be able to mediate a divorce to help both of you come to the right decisions about what you need. They’ll protect your rights, but they won’t be out to destroy your relationship.

If you want an Alpharetta divorce attorney who will give you unbiased advice, protect your rights, and help you with tips to make your divorce easier, Waggoner Hastings can help. Call our offices for a consultation today.

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